On IRC, wanoskarnet notes that if we ever do microdesc_free() on a
microdesc that's in the nodelist, we're in trouble. Also, we're in
trouble if we free one that's still in the microdesc_cache map.
This code adds a flag to microdesc_t to note where the microdesc is
referenced from, and checks those flags from microdesc_free(). I
don't believe we have any errors here now, but if we introduce some
later, let's log and recover from them rather than introducing
heisenbugs later on.
Addresses bug 3153.